Your wedding will be one of the most memorable occasions in your life. For one day, you’ll be the prince or the princess, marrying your soul mate in front of close friends and family. The more you think about it, the more magical it becomes.
But weddings aren’t totally devoid of stress. The big day brings with it its own pressures, one of which is organizing the honeymoon. You want it to be just perfect, but how do you know where to visit? Should you choose a place at random, or decide based on advice given by friends?
To help you get your honeymoon sorted so that you can start focusing on more pressing issues, we’ll list our expert tips which are sure to help you choose where to visit. These tips come from the mouths of the gurus themselves, so you can trust the advice contained within them will be as golden as your wedding band.
Ask Yourself What You Want to Do on Your Honeymoon
Honeymoon destinations are like wedding dresses. They come in all different shapes and sizes, and what will suit one will bore another.
Before getting out your atlas and looking at exotic locations dotted around the globe, you’ll want to decide what it is you want to do. If you want relaxation and beautiful scenery, a traditional beach honeymoon will likely suit you. If you want entertainment, taking a visit to a new city could be on the cards. Once you know what you want to do when you get there, you’ll be able to narrow down your options. Now stress lessens and excitement kicks in.
Think About Your Budget
Some honeymoons can cost more than a new sports car. If that’s what you have in mind – great. But for those on a tighter budget, it’s worth figuring out what you can actually afford. Long-haul flights will usually add a significant amount to the cost of your holiday, so knowing whether you can afford them will help you plan better.
Some locations are also more expensive than others, simply because of how in demand they are. Getting an idea of what’s in your price range is best done at the very start of your preparations. This way you’ll be able to choose a place that really excites you, rather than having to feel like you’ve settled for second best.
Decide What Type of Accommodation You Want
When somebody says the word “honeymoon”, what imagine does it conjure up in your mind? Perhaps you envisage lying peacefully in a hut somewhere exotic. Perhaps you see yourself with your partner in a 5-star hotel somewhere being waited on hand and foot.
Deciding what type of accommodating you want will really help narrow down your list of options. Certain destinations do certain accommodations well, so it’s likely they’ll be places you’ll choose to visit.
You’ll also want to decide on whether you prefer all-inclusive or not. Some couple love the idea of spending every moment in a place where everything is taken care of. Others prefer the idea of finding their own activities, and spending their evenings exploring local bars and restaurants.
How Does the Timing Work?
Every location peaks at a certain time.
When trying to decide on where to take your honeymoon, it’s important to keep timing in mind. This is partly down to price, as peak seasons will cost a lot more than off-peak seasons. But it’s also down to weather, too.
In many parts of the world, climates differ dramatically depending on when you’re there. This often neglected fact can be the difference between a wonderful honeymoon and a nightmare one.
In certain cities, such as those in Canada and North America, winter months bring extreme snow which can totally destroy the ambient vibe you may have been visiting for. Even the Caribbean has weather differentials. Autumn months are prime hurricane season there, and are best avoided.
Do Language Barriers Bother You?
If you’re bothered by the thought of having to speak a different language while you’re on your honeymoon, it’s best if you stick to English-speaking countries.
While there are many beautiful locations to choose from, not all of them will use English as their native tongue. Many of the ex-colonies speak English fluently, meaning you do have a variety of places to visit which won’t involve packing a phrasebook.
Of course, you could always stay in Britain should you choose to. Many places in Wales and Scotland are full of natural beauty and will feel more comfortable than somewhere a long way away from home. Even England has many fantastic honeymoon spots, especially when down in the South.
Your honeymoon is something you’ll remember forever, so it’s important to take a little extra time to figure out what you want from it.
Chances are, the occasion will be like a fairytale, wherever you visit, but just to be sure, it’s worth answering the questions we’ve asked above. They’ll just help to ensure you know exactly what you’ll be getting, and help avoid any unwelcome surprises.
You may find it takes some time to find answers to these questions. You and your partner may have different opinions entirely of what constitutes a fun vacation. This is ok, with so many honeymoon destinations to choose from, it’s likely that you’ll be able to reach a compromise.
Once you have a few answers in your head, you’ll be able to start browsing with more confidence. You’ll know for sure you’ll pick a place that will be exactly what you want, and can rest assured you’ll be going on the honeymoon of a lifetime right after the big day.
Planning and organizing a wedding is definitely not an easy task. There are so many things that you need to think about and your entertainment is just one of them. The entertainment can be especially difficult because chances are that your guests will all have different tastes — it’s your day, but it would be nice that everyone had a good time.
Choosing a DJ for your wedding can be a very difficult task, especially if this isn’t something that you’ve done before. Fortunately, there are a few things that you can do to make your decision making much more manageable.
Shortlist DJs and Set a Meeting
First and foremost, you’ll want to shortlist a few potential DJs that you think will fit the bill for your wedding. You can find and shortlist DJs through various methods: referrals from friends and family, online search engines, directories, social media, and popular clubs and party venues.
Once you have created your shortlist of DJs that look good, you’ll then want to set up a meeting with them to confirm that they are actually as good as you think they are. This will give you the opportunity to address any concerns that you might have about their service or the entertainment aspect of your wedding overall.
We know that when it comes to your wedding, everything is usually on a tight deadline. You don’t always need to have face-to-face meetings. Think about other options such as phone calls or skype video messaging.
Questions to Ask
Okay, so you’ve set up a meeting with a few potential DJs, but now you’re worried that you won’t be asking them the right questions — you might not even have any questions to ask them at all. If this is the case, don’t worry because we’ve got you covered!
Here is a list of a few questions that you should probably ask your DJ to help you get a better idea of their service:
- Is this your full-time business or do you only do this part-time? Part-time DJs won’t have as much expertise or experience as a full-time DJ, so it’s worth asking this.
- Will you be the DJ at our wedding? This is a good question to ask because it’s not always the person who you meet with who intends to be the DJ.
- Do you only DJ at weddings, or do you perform at other events? A DJ that specializes in weddings is going to have a much better idea of what you are looking for.
- Do you have any videos of past performances that you done? This will help you understand exactly what you’ll be getting.
- How do you customize your service? You should be looking for a DJ that will customize the experience for you and your partner, not a one-size-fits-all solution.
Get Everything in Writing
Before you decide to hire a DJ, always make sure that they offer a written contract — this is one of the main indicators of a professional DJ. A written contract is extremely important because it’s going to protect you in the instance that your DJ doesn’t quite deliver the service that you expected.
If a potential DJ does not offer a written contract, we highly recommend that you move onto the next one.
Hopefully you now have a much better idea as to how you can make sure that you choose the right DJ for your wedding. Your wedding is an extremely special day so it’s important to make sure that everything goes as smoothly as possible.
One thing that you might want to think about is whether you want to hire a DJ at all, keep in mind that there are other options. For example, you might want to hire a live band — this will be more expensive of course, but will provide a much better experience for you and your guests.
Wow look at these dresses, not chosen it yet, but aren’t they beautiful.
Not sure what to go for as I have a big figure and most dresses look great on skinny women. But they are stunning.
Hi, this site is all about my wedding, and how I can help other people with what we did with our wedding.
For example how we chose the dj.
Wedding limo in kenya
Ok, so imagine the moment, the love of your life has proposed (well let’s hope he is the love of your life), anyway he has proposed and the ring is organised, as is the date, you are still debating the guest list, flowers need sorting out, dress, songs, music, church or not??? The list is endless and can be stressful. But there are some fun items, like honeymoon and limousine choice!!!
Honeymoon is cool and great to look up online and discuss and plan but what about that limo, that is exciting and there is so much choice these days. And who do you get limos for, clearly for the bride’s arrival, and the groom’s arrival with the best man and the usher’s and close family. Well those of your close family you like. And a limo to the honeymoon hotel?
So that could be three limos and you could consider a bigger vehicle (this limo company works well and is recommended for the Newcastle area) like a bus for the next level of family and friends.
It would be so great to get a limo, you would love the elegance, style, grace, comfort, ability to show off. You could also ensure that those who you care about and are always late are on time by picking them up in style. It adds so much to a wedding. Also those of your friends and family that like a drink can also be accommodated easily, so everybody wins in a limo.
Ordering your limo is key as you want to make sure you get the one you want, the limousine in the picture above looks very nice and as you can see accessories her dress rather nicely and it was clearly well chosen. Therefore you should book it up 6 to 9 months in advance to ensure the right one is available, or you might have to change your wedding dress to match the colour of the limo.
And if it’s a wedding in the spring, you probably should book your limo a year in advance as there will be lots of other weddings and also Proms are very big now with limo companies.
It also will help you if you do some due diligence on both the limo company and the cost of the service and the limo service itself, exactly what do you get and more importantly, what don’t you get for your money. Some limo owners are very good and some not so good.
Some good questions to ask;
- What limo can I have, get it in writing
- What is in the limo with regards to drinks?
- Is the limo company insured?
- What if you change your mind, what is the refund process?
- Who are the drivers?
- Are they qualified to drive the car you chose?
- Do they know the area?
- How experienced are they?
- What is the total cost?
- How much is the deposit?
- Is there aircon/heating?
- What music options are there?
- What if the trips go over the agreed time?
- What happens if the limo breaks down?
Do not be afraid to ask these questions, it is far far better to understand all these facts before your big day.
Good luck with your wedding and I hope your limousine is amazing and helps make your day wonderful.